Sudden Distance
Why did they suddenly go cold?
Sudden distance does not always mean you did something wrong. Read the pullback before you chase an answer.
Useful when
- Replies suddenly changed
- Things got closer, then colder
- You keep checking what you did
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- Why did they turn cold
- What are they avoiding
- What should I not do
Understanding the reason does not mean excusing it.
Quick Context
Start with the current connection.
Add what happened before the distance only if it feels useful.
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What is the relationship right now?
When was your last contact?
What happened before they went cold?
How are you feeling now?
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